What causes Premature ejaculation and what can be done to fix it?
The Amazing KRISSY asked:
I have been with my fiancee for almost 8 years and he has always had a problem with Premature Ejaculation. He lasts anywhere from 20 seconds to 2 minutes. He usually lasts under a minute. This happens every time. He is 25 years old if that matters. We have already tried changing frequency of ***.
I dont think it’s a self confidence issue. He didn’t know anything was wrong with it. I finally found the best way to bring it up to him.
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Premature ejaculation or PE means coming too quickly, and it’s one of the most common of all sexual problems. It’s more prevalent amongst younger men and gets better with age though not always. An American Research paper reported that the average lasting time of men was 7.3 mins and men with PE had an average of 1.8 mins. However different people have different ideas of what is normal. If you or your partner feel that you are coming too soon and are left feeling unsatisfied, then PE should be considered. Here are few of the questions frequently asked about PE - responses are by other readers. None of the answers are intended to constitute medical advice, so please consult your medical practitioner before trying anything out. Find out the best ways to stop PE at the Premature Ejaculation Cure website where you will find free advice and lots of information.
April 26th, 2009 at 6:02 am
It’s usually inexperience or some sort of confidence or rather lack of confidence issue. Since you’ve been at it a while, it’s probably to do with confidence. Each time he “fails” to keep the motor running, he’s screwing his confidence even more. (no pun intended) He has to work on his confidence, then work on the ***.
April 26th, 2009 at 6:11 am
Say let him by himself in the morning and tell to slow down later in the evening
April 28th, 2009 at 2:40 am
tell him to practice by masturbating and taking his time. Mayb as a child he sped up his masturbating so that he wouldnt get caught. that is what messed him up. But the only way he can fix that is by taking his time when he masturbates. Hope i helped.
April 30th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
He’s producing too much sperms. Yikes. Thank goodness for you. Why don’t you ********** him, let him rest, then have *** with you again? He will definitely take longer to climax the second time around.
May 3rd, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Try finding that perfect amount of alcohol where he is hard enough to enter you but drunk enough to have his sexual response lowered enough that he wont be SO excited SO fast
and I mean like anywhere from a little buzz.. to drunk …DONT get wasted
seriously… when I am ***** and drunk I have always lasted longer than usual so I know what I am talking about
May 4th, 2009 at 8:09 am
You excite him too much too quickly, good for you. He could try numbing cream, sold at *** shops, internet, or some drug stores. You could also stop for a moment and let his excitement dwindle a little. He has to learn to control himself. He can think of math problems, or think of his parents having sex, anything to distract him from his excitement. Since he didn’t know he was too fast, he has never worked on lasting longer. You should be able to solve this, just pace yourselves with pauses in the movement. Maybe even stopping completed, and letting him withdraw and start again.
May 7th, 2009 at 7:56 am
Stress, anxiety, weak PC muscle, and inexperience are all causes of premature ejaculation. This is completely normal, because it’s sad to say that most men suffer from it. Relax, don’t feel pressured to perform, and have fun with it, and the problem will fix itself.
But if that doesn’t work than do an exercise called “kegels”, this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male ******. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your ******* as well. The PC muscle is located right between your ******* and ****. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you’ll have the ability to last as long as you want.
May 7th, 2009 at 11:44 am
Is he up for round 2? I usually don’t last long the first one, then we do a little more foreplay til I’m good for another round.
May 10th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Dear I am sure By the past 8 years you both have tried all the available options for controlling his PE.
As you give his condition In my view he suffers from SPPE ie svere Primary Pre Mature Ejaculation.
This is very complex condition in which self threapy conditions are not helpful. Its a mix of psychological and organic causes.
In this condition patient develops definite Blocks in brain which prevent any kind of threapy. This is a real condition in which no kegals, start stop or squeeze threapy helps. You can try these and examin my statements that he gets any benifits or not.
Here we provide specific counselling to remove such psychological blocks.
Secondly we find the disturbance in sexual nervous reflex action channel. To rectify it we have to prescribe the patients few specific herbal combination medicines(definately NOT antidepressants) so that his hypersensitivity can be calm down.
Most importantly we train the patient in specific techniques like ***** Technique which help to gain control over his early ejaculation.
So you can observe only a comprehensive threapy works in such conditions to sucess.
Hope this information helps you
Dr Anil Kumar
Sr *** Specialist