What is the best way to Control Premature Ejaculation in a lasting way?

Oliver P asked:


Yes, it is a little embarrassing, but hey, since 45% of men suffer from the inability to control premature ejaculation, I thought I’d put the question out there to get some non bias answers.

So what is the best way to control premature ejaculation? I am not interested in hearing about pills and creams, but rather interested in knowing if it is something that can be controlled or is is something that you just have to learn to live with and accept as something that cannot change?

Thanks.
Oliver

7 Responses to “What is the best way to Control Premature Ejaculation in a lasting way?”

  1. otis Says:

    rubberband.

  2. Steve Says:

    Cut your ***** off. jk. haha.

  3. King Derrick Lovebug Says:

    I wouldn’t say 45%…maybe 30%

    A lot of it has to do with education regarding ejaculation control…there are certain mental processes, as well as some physical techniques, to last longer during sex

    I’ve learned quite a bit from this guide:

  4. AnswererOfSensibleQuestions Says:

    Its a bit of a mind over matter situation this is.

    I think that first of all you need not worry about it. As you said loads of guys have it. And to be quite honest, if it ever happened when I was with a guy I would take it as a compliment and it would probably make me feel quite good about myself.

    I think that if you have problems with it in the bedroom just let your partner know that even if this does happen you’re not going to rest till she/he is satisfied aswell. That way, how can they really complain!?!?

    A suggested popular method is regular ************ because it decreases your sensitivity and makes coming more “difficult”. Other than that there’s nothing…

    My overall advice would be: Practice makes perfect!

    Good luck man xxx

  5. Luis C Says:

    its all mental dude just think about something that turns u off like a male.
    when you were small you probbably didnt even think about *** its all mental
    but i say do her doggie style and text while your doing it to keep your mind of it.

  6. Bill Says:

    The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.If you know how to identify these muscles and how to control your mind,ejaculation won’t happen until you desire.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation

  7. Peter Says:

    Hi Oliver,

    Firstly, good for you to come out in the open (excuse the pun) and request information about this somewhat embarrasing subject.

    I have read some of the replies here and while I agree with some, like ensuring you partner is satisfied as well as this does not have to happen through intercourse, other like masturbating more often will only make matters worse as when we are growing up masturbating is something that configures the mind to get it over with quickly thus causing PE later in life.

    I personally suffered with this problem and after realizing that I could control premature ejaculation my life and my partners changed in a wonderful way. We now help many other men though our website at so check it out and when you have a success story to report, please share it with us.

    Kind Regads
    Peter Eicks